Avery James Sabo

On Sept 30, 2007, we lost our dear son Avery as a result of a sleep impaired driver. He was a passenger in a vehicle with two friends; they were just leaving a small town rural fair after having a great evening, when they were hit by another vehicle which crossed the line. The other vehicle was driven by a 17-year-old female who had fallen asleep at the wheel. Our son sitting behind the driver took the full force of the collision and died instantly on impact, he was the only fatality, and we are forever grateful that neither of his friends was seriously injured.

The accident occurred the day before his and his twin sisters 17th birthday. He is survived by his parents, his twin sister, an older brother, a future sister-in-law, and a niece he loved dearly. He left behind many friends, and is especially missed by a few who were very close to him. The family dog of 12 years passed shortly after Avery, we believe from sensing the despair all around her. Avery was a bright young individual who loved music, he played many instruments; he was profound reader, and an aspiring writer. He always had a hug for family and friends.

Our lives have changed so profoundly, never to be the same again; every day is a struggle stumbling along trying to do what is right for our other children, trying so hard to what we are expected to do. We have been touched deeply by so many in our community, friends young and old, and by others who have also lost children to tragedy. Life seems far too long now, the hurt is unbearable.

The driver of the other car was charged with a highway traffic offence, careless driving. We have heard so often; “because she fell asleep”, “oh it was just an accident”, like it’s something we should accept, I don’t believe these and in general most people actually contemplate how preventable an action it is, and the consequences suffered. The collateral damage to family and friends will last a life time.

— Submitted by Dale and Donnalu